Porn is a Problem

I've come to realize that the devil has a very powerful weapon for destroying marriages. Porn. No need to throw temptation at a man, when you can lure him in with discontent. He'll do the rest.

What better to make a husband believe that there is something lacking in his life, than filling his head with images of women that are pretty with fake boobs, doing any number of sexual acts, with any number of guys. And to top it off she's being paid to act like she enjoys it.

Pretty soon, he wonders why his sex life isn't nearly so exciting. He begins to have expectations that no housewife or working mom could possibly fulfill. She can't because she's a real person, with real needs, real desires, and a finite amount of energy. But he doesn't see that. He believes that she should be just like those women, and when she is unable to fulfill that expectation, he feels that he is being slighted. He's missing out on the real fun out there.

Sure he loves his wife, but she's just not meeting his needs. Maybe there is someone else out there that can? And thus there are sites all over the web, for men looking for a fling. Including craigslist.

He'd be furious at me if I did half of what he's done. He doesn't even like the few emails I've sent to a friend 1000's of miles away, because that man lives a very different lifestyle, and he thinks that man is a threat to him. But those rules have never applied to himself. He has no boundaries, but I should have plenty.

I'm not in a good mood today. I'm not in a loving mood today. I'm not in a forgiving mood today.