Snooping

I just read a great article on CNN regarding snooping and the damage it can do in a relationship. My favorite line is: With a partner or a significant other, if you have to snoop, that should be signal No. 1 that there's something wrong.

It's so very true. Generally what leads to the snooping, is that there is a problem. This is difficult for me. I'm trying to learn not to snoop, to not be so suspicious. In a way it became, and at times still is, habit. Out of fear and mistrust I am always looking for what may be out of place. Instead I should be focusing on what is going right.

Waiting and watching for the worst to happen, isn't anyway to live my life. Enjoying what is going right, and working toward keeping that going, will take me much farther!

Lord, help me to appreciate each blessing that comes in our relationship. Help me to enjoy my time with my husband, and remember to tell him that.